Charleston South Carolina

MALAKAI IS THREE!!!

West Virginia with Matt and Gina

My Brother Matt was so great and found a cabin right in the middle of his house and ours. I think he literally just googled it and found the middle. So we each had to drive four hours and met in West Virginia. (Okay we ended up driving more like six, and they four but who is counting.) This cabin was truly a surprise in the middle of nowhere but we had a really nice time. It was fun to be able to see their family while we are both living in the East. We really just took it easy and spent good quality time together. We did venture out and see the New River Gorge Bridge. That was a nice little walk. We were all pretty out of it that week so it was fun to relax. Matt had broken ribs, Gina was feeling worn out with the pregnancy, and I had a broken foot. Glad Ryan was a good sport and hung out with us all (not to mention he has had a broken foot for over a year and still does everything on it).

 Raiyah truly loves Scruffles. This is Matt and Gina's dog. She spent every moment with the dog except for at night when he was in the cage.

 I will not explain this picture, except that yes it looks like he is flying, yes I was scared, and yes Ryan assured me he wasn't in danger at all.

Matt, Gina, and Owen

We celebrated Malakai's third birthday while at the cabin. What a handsome grown up boy. We love our Big Mac.

Iput this picture on for two reasons. To remind me of how much Malakai loves to cuddle with me, and he better always continue to do so. And this is probably the only picture I have of my broken foot. I wore this boot for three months. It was not a nice thing to stop running but I am glad I was diligent, and let it heal.

Malakai and matches

I was going to put these pictures with our WV Trip but they need a spot all their own. Anyone that knows Ryan, knows that he loves building fires. Wether it was to romance me when dating, "teach" his scouts how to build the perfect one, or just to have a good night out he LOVES to build a fire. So I guess I should not have been surprised to come outside the cabin and see that he had carefully explained to our "almost" three year old son how to "safely" light a match, and build the perfect fire. Although we will have to keep a close eye on Malakai and matches now, he seemed to really get it, and LOVE it. His face explains the sheer joy he had in seeing the fire light up.

Rim Lake, and hanging out.

 You know that moment when you hear bits of giggling in the kids' room, you know they might be doing something naughty but are glad they are having fun so you wait a little while longer to investigate. Well, I bought the the big thing of toilet paper at Sam's for our three month stay here, and this is what the children decided to do with it. Very nice castle. They might fight a bit, but I love that they are starting to play more together every day.

 I found our apartment online which was very scary. But we didn't want to show up in North Carolina like we had in Virginia, with no home. That was just too stressful. So I made a list of everything we wanted in an apartment, and to top the list was an indoor pool for finishing off the winter months and an outdoor pool for spring. We were not dissapointed. We go to the pool atleast three days a week. And two weeks ago both kids took off their floaties and are official swimmers. Raiyah is always shocked when she comes up and sees how far she has gone. She keeps telling us she will be joining us on the next triathlon, and is so pleased that she can swim like a mermaid now.

 The kids take turns giving eachother horse rides. I'm not sure how good this is for their backs but they love it and always end up in laughing hysterics. I will also take more pictures in a bit of our apartment but it has been a huge change from the beach house. We are actually living the way we planned when we started this adventure. We are each sleeping on blow up beds, no dressars, just shelves in closets, and boxes, wow what a change. But we are loving every moment. We are not worried about all the little things that come with trying to decorate a home, or buy that cool item we see becuase well it just won't fit in the mini van. We are pretty full just carrying the essentials to each destination. This simple, yet completely fulfilling life is so wonderful. We are seeing the US, learning so many new things, and just spending time as a family.

 Rim Lake. The visitor's center at this lake let's you borrow fishing poles, and gives the kids each a fishing kit with a tackle box, flys, and all you need to fish. The kids were really excited and really liked Ryan teaching them how to hook a worm, and cast a line. What a great day we had.

Our new home: North Carolina. First adventure: Raven Rock

Welcome to our new home: North Carolina! If we are being honest we weren't very excited about this being our next home. But there is no doubt that this is where we are supposed to be. And we have found that no matter where we are we can make it a good experience. Our first adventure was Raven Rock. Many people said this was "the hike" to go on while here. Maybe we are "hike snobs" but this didn't come near any hikes in Utah. But we did have fun and loved being in the outdoors. Both of the kids did the whole loop which was three miles; so we are pleased they are getting to be great hikers, and love it as much as we do                             .  

New Years Eve, last night in the beach house!

This pictures was New Years Eve. We had a rockin' party with the kids. Doing Dance Revolution, playing games, eating lot's of treats, and banging pots outside. The kids even got to stay up all night!!! (8:30pm but they don't need to know that).This was our last night in Virgina, glad we got to say goodbye with a great Babinsky Family Party.

 We have been so blessed during our five months here. We never could have imagined the things we would see, the people we would meet, and the ways in which we would grow. There are a couple of things that stick out as things we have learned here:

1) WATER: Anyone who knows me is aware of my dislike for water. Yes I love to wakeboard, go boating, triathlons, and many other water activities. But I do not like water. Ryan on the other hand would live in water if he had the choice. He truly loves water more than anyone I know. He gets very frustrated when I'm not playing with him in the pool, or lake. So I have to admit I didn't recognize the blessing of living in a beach house when we arrived. These are memories I will never forget. I can now say that I have gone on my boogie board way past any other swimmers waiting for a great wave. This is a huge thing for me. I can now say I can dive under a wave so it doesn't knock me over. I now know that you can swim in the ocean in the middle of a torrential rainstorm and it's beautiful. And one of my favorite things. Both of our children LOVE the ocean, and swimming. They are not afraid to dive into a big wave, or let their Papa carry them clear out into the crazy waves. Even in the freezing cold waters of December the kids were out on the beach jumping in the water. Our family now is officially a water family.

2) CHARITY: I could go on forever in what we learned about Charity, and the pure love of Christ in this area. Not having crazy schedules on this adventure has given us so much more time to see the needs of others, and to be able to do something about it. I pray when we do get "settled" again we will remember this lesson and know that life won't slow down for the important things if we don't do it ourselves. We also learned that we don't need to ask why someone is in a situation, just how we can help them, and in what way they want this help.

3) FAMILY: We didn't know how we were going to feel about being away from our families. I can say with certainty that this is the best thing we could have done in regards to our family. Sometimes when you see people ALL the time you forget how important they are to you. And you forget to talk about the stuff really going on in your life. Some of my favorite times now are phone calls, and skyping with family. We are learning about eachothers lives in a more personal way than I think we have in a long time.

There are so many reasons we loved living in Virginia. We are so thankful the Lord recognizes our wants and our needs and is so close in our lives.